Can Catholics be cremated?
Yes, it is possible for Catholic to be cremated, though the traditional way of burial is still the preferred way for Catholics. While cremation is allowed, it is good for the loved ones of the person who has died to keep in mind the following:
When cremation has been chosen for acceptable reasons, the various elements of the funeral rite should be present with the body present -- the wake service, wake, the funeral mass and the final commendation and farewell in church.
The cremated remains must always be treated with respect. They should be either interred or entombed, preferably in a Catholic cemetery. The cremated remains should not be kept in the home or be “divided” among other people.
The cremated remains may not be scattered or disposed of in any manner other than a dignified interment or entombment.
In the United States, if the body has been cremated prior to the funeral liturgy, the cremated remains may be brought into the Church for the funeral liturgy.
There are some differences, however, from the traditional funeral mass. There is no procession of family and friends into church at the beginning of the mass. The family is seated before the mass begins. The cremated remains are brought into church before mass (usually by the funeral director) and placed near the altar. It is understood that as soon as possible the cremated remains will be respectfully interred in a cemetery plot or entombed (columbarium).
The family is welcome to place a guest book and/or a photograph in the gathering area outside of the church worship space.
Should you need help or advice, let contact us at the Parish Center (631-271-4455).
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